How an Au Pair can solve your childcare problems.
Many parents find hosting an au pair an inexpensive, flexible way to provide
care for their children in their own homes, either instead of or as well as
nurseries, after school and holiday clubs or other forms of childcare. So what
are au pairs, what do they do, and what would be the pros and cons of an au pair
placement for you?
An au pair placement is an arrangement where a single person aged between 17 and
27 comes to the United Kingdom and lives for up to two years (and often much
shorter periods) as a member of an English-speaking family; the au pair helps in
the home for up to five hours a day (or seven hours for an au pair plus) with at
least two full days off a week, in return for the opportunity to improve their
English and get to know British culture, with their own room and a reasonable
allowance - the government recommended allowance is £55 per week for 25 hours
work. Some au pairs will work longer hours by prior arrangement.
Some parents have an au pair to help around the house and with the children when
one or both parents are present, but most have one to take sole charge of the
children while they are out at work. Typical duties include looking after
pre-school children at home, getting older children ready for school or nursery
and taking them there, collecting children from school, keeping the children's
things tidy, and often preparing their meals, bathing them and putting them to
bed. Light housework such as vacuuming, washing up and laundry are often
included, and some au pairs will also iron or cook, but childcare is often the
au pair's main duty, and normally it is their preferred one!
Although au pairs provide very cost effective childcare, it is important to
understand that au pairs are not simply 'cheap labour' - the au pair will be in
your home to improve their English and learn the ways of your country as well as
helping you about the house and with your children. Families need to help the au
pair to settle in, to get to know the area and find language courses or other
activities to help them make friends. It's also important to remember that in
general au pairs do not hold childcare qualifications, so parents should give
them full instructions before leaving them
in sole charge of the children.
One of the advantages of au pairs is that they may be more flexible than
professional childcare providers; they may be happy to work extra hours in
school holidays or on particularly busy days, and you can even take them with
you to help with the children if you go away. It can also be an enriching
experience for the family and many parents value the opportunity for their
children to start learning a foreign language themselves when they are young.
So where can au pairs come from? Technically an au pair must be a national of
one of the following countries: Andorra, Faroe Islands, Monaco,
Bosnia-Herzegovina, Greenland, Poland, Bulgaria, Hungary, Romania Croatia,
Latvia, San Marino, Cyprus, Lithuania, Slovak Republic, Czech Republic,
Macedonia, Slovenia, Estonia, Malta and Turkey. Although European Economic Area
nationals are not included in the au pair scheme, they are in fact free to come
to the United Kingdom to take au pair placements.
Under the au pair scheme au pairs should not be married, should have no
dependants and should not plan to stay in the United Kingdom for more than two
years as an au pair. Nationals of Bosnia-Herzegovina, Bulgaria, Republic of
Croatia, Macedonia, Romania, the Slovak Republic and Turkey must get a visa from
their British Embassy or Consulate before they travel to the United Kingdom.
Members of commonwealth countries such as Australia, New Zealand or Canada often
act as au pairs in the UK under the working holidaymaker scheme and are greatly
sought after. The working holidaymaker scheme is an arrangement whereby a person
aged between 17 and 30 (inclusive) can come to the United Kingdom for an
extended holiday for up to two years, with the intention of taking paid work
here as a part
of his or her working holiday.
If you are interested in arranging for an au pair to stay with you can visit an
Aupair Plus at
http://www.aupair-plus.com who will search their database of
over 4000 au pairs and contact the closest matches to you need with information
about your family.